Looking for a 100% Free Asian dating site?
Well I've bitten the bullet and built my own dating site. These things are easy when you're a software developer and database programmer.
The site I've created is Asian Love Connections. Check it out!
Of course the site is new and doesn't have many members yet, but they'll come. In the meantime you can create your profile today and be assured of a lot of interest as more members sign up.
Members who sign up now get to take advantage of totally free dating without having to pay the huge fees that other sites charge.
To give you some examples, a year's membership of Chinese Love Links cost me £99 (around $165). And on Chnlove I spent something like $400 in just a few weeks!
So join me today on Asian Love Connections, where online Asian dating won't cost you a cent!
And because I've created this site for YOU, I'm happy to incorporate any changes you think would make the site the coolest Asian chat site online.
Happy and successful Asian dating!
Showing posts with label Dating Asian Ladies. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Dating Asian Ladies. Show all posts
Tuesday, 1 May 2012
Tuesday, 6 March 2012
Vietnamese Dating - Alternative to Thai or Filipina Dating?
Increasing numbers of men are now looking at the option of finding a mail order bride from Vietnam. If I was starting my search for an Asian wife now, I think I would consider Vietnam my #1 choice.
Vietnam is generally less well developed than other Asian countries (particularly Thailand). So the ladies have a reputation for being much less Westernised than Thai women. Chinese men think this is a good thing, and large numbers of them are heading over the border in search of wives.
Vietnam is still a developing country. But the Vietnamese economy is one of the fastest growing in the world. It's possible to find plenty of English speaking women with good office lady type jobs online. Increasing numbers of ladies have access to a computer at home or at work. This means that you can chat directly to them online instead of having to use a rather dubious mail order bride marriage agency.
So where do you find nice marriage minded Vietnamese girls? One site worth looking at is Vietnam Cupid. This is a site specifically aimed at the Vietnamese dating market. Of course it's main use is for Western men to meet beautiful Vietnamese girls for romance and marriage.
Vietnam is generally less well developed than other Asian countries (particularly Thailand). So the ladies have a reputation for being much less Westernised than Thai women. Chinese men think this is a good thing, and large numbers of them are heading over the border in search of wives.
Vietnam is still a developing country. But the Vietnamese economy is one of the fastest growing in the world. It's possible to find plenty of English speaking women with good office lady type jobs online. Increasing numbers of ladies have access to a computer at home or at work. This means that you can chat directly to them online instead of having to use a rather dubious mail order bride marriage agency.
So where do you find nice marriage minded Vietnamese girls? One site worth looking at is Vietnam Cupid. This is a site specifically aimed at the Vietnamese dating market. Of course it's main use is for Western men to meet beautiful Vietnamese girls for romance and marriage.
How to Find Love Overseas
Global air travel and the rise of the Internet mean that it's never been easier to find love overseas. For many years, British and American men were well known for going to Thailand in search of exotically beautiful Asian mail order brides. But now everyone's at it. British women are marrying American men, Australian men are marrying Indonesian women and so on.
If you like the idea of international dating but haven't quite decided on what country you want to find a partner from, then it's worth looking at a dating site with an international flair. One such site is International Cupid. This site isn't exclusively for men seeking mail order brides, so Western women won't feel intimidated signing up for this site.
The site offers totally free membership. Like many dating sites you only really need to pay in order to contact members on the site. The membership fee is very reasonable, and there is a good discount if you sign up for an annual membership.
On the downside, international dating scams are commonplace. It's essential to be on your guard whichever dating site you choose to use. Be wary of members without photos, or who email you and profess their undying love for you in their first email. Also be on the lookout for the many African dating site scammers who can be found on most dating sites these days.
But don't let horror stories about scams put you off searching for love overseas.
If you like the idea of international dating but haven't quite decided on what country you want to find a partner from, then it's worth looking at a dating site with an international flair. One such site is International Cupid. This site isn't exclusively for men seeking mail order brides, so Western women won't feel intimidated signing up for this site.
The site offers totally free membership. Like many dating sites you only really need to pay in order to contact members on the site. The membership fee is very reasonable, and there is a good discount if you sign up for an annual membership.
On the downside, international dating scams are commonplace. It's essential to be on your guard whichever dating site you choose to use. Be wary of members without photos, or who email you and profess their undying love for you in their first email. Also be on the lookout for the many African dating site scammers who can be found on most dating sites these days.
But don't let horror stories about scams put you off searching for love overseas.
Thursday, 9 February 2012
New Website About Hot Asian Women!
This blog is called Searching for an Asian Wife. Well I haven't yet found an Asian wife, although my current Asian girlfriend certainly looks like good wife material.
Anyway, I can see now why so many guys "never go back" after dating Asian women.
My current Chinese girlfriend is younger than me, has a smoking hot body and is great company.
Wow, Asian women are terrific, and I want to get this message across to more guys!
So here's my new website:
Here's all you ever needed to know about dating Asian women. I don't run a dating site, so I won't try to get you to sign up to one. I'll tell you how to date Asian women, which country has the best women for you, and which dating sites are the best places to chat to lovely oriental beauties.
Every page also allows you to leave comments and suggestions so that we can work together to make the most of the opportunities to meet and date beautiful Asian girls.
Enjoy!
Anyway, I can see now why so many guys "never go back" after dating Asian women.
My current Chinese girlfriend is younger than me, has a smoking hot body and is great company.
Wow, Asian women are terrific, and I want to get this message across to more guys!
So here's my new website:
Here's all you ever needed to know about dating Asian women. I don't run a dating site, so I won't try to get you to sign up to one. I'll tell you how to date Asian women, which country has the best women for you, and which dating sites are the best places to chat to lovely oriental beauties.
Every page also allows you to leave comments and suggestions so that we can work together to make the most of the opportunities to meet and date beautiful Asian girls.
Enjoy!
Tuesday, 13 December 2011
DateInAisa
So I've been doing a bit more thinking about DateInAisa. This is one of the Asian dating websites that is actually totally free to use. I guess you don't get something for nothing these days. In fact this is true and not true when it comes to DateInAisa.
DateInAisa is indeed a free site, but it's not that easy to use. Given how many female members the site has, it's quite difficult to find your dream lady on the site. For one thing there aren't many search options - you can basically just search for age and location. For another, members can only upload 1 photo of themselves.
So I guess DateInAisa is a bit of a pot luck dating site really.
One thing that is good about the site is that it's a good place to find women from a much wider range of Aisan countries. I've personally dated countless Chinese women, and I know you guys are also interested in Filipino and Thai women.
Well I've got news for you - there's a world of choice when it comes to oriental dating. Just lately I've been wondering if Vietnamese women are for me. They seem cuter than the Chinese girls on Chinese Love Links, and maybe they're not so demanding on us men either.
And for the record, there are hundreds of Viet girls on DateInAisa. Here's the number I found:
How many of these are scammers? Well I'm not sure about this, but they seem more legit than many of the Thai or Filipino profiles I've browsed through on DateInAisa.
DateInAisa is indeed a free site, but it's not that easy to use. Given how many female members the site has, it's quite difficult to find your dream lady on the site. For one thing there aren't many search options - you can basically just search for age and location. For another, members can only upload 1 photo of themselves.
So I guess DateInAisa is a bit of a pot luck dating site really.
One thing that is good about the site is that it's a good place to find women from a much wider range of Aisan countries. I've personally dated countless Chinese women, and I know you guys are also interested in Filipino and Thai women.
Well I've got news for you - there's a world of choice when it comes to oriental dating. Just lately I've been wondering if Vietnamese women are for me. They seem cuter than the Chinese girls on Chinese Love Links, and maybe they're not so demanding on us men either.
And for the record, there are hundreds of Viet girls on DateInAisa. Here's the number I found:
| Age | Number of Viet girls on DateInAisa |
| 18 | 0 |
| 19 | 4 |
| 20 | 5 |
| 21 | 9 |
| 22 | 14 |
| 23 | 4 |
| 24 | 13 |
| 25 | 14 |
| 26 | 21 |
| 27 | 25 |
| 28 | 12 |
How many of these are scammers? Well I'm not sure about this, but they seem more legit than many of the Thai or Filipino profiles I've browsed through on DateInAisa.
Thursday, 1 December 2011
Find Asia Love
Find Asia Love is a 100% free Asian dating site. Actually the site is really called Find Love Asia, but many people prefer to call it Find Asia Love. Given that 99% of the female members are from the Philippines, maybe Find Philippines Love is a more appropriate name?
Tuesday, 15 November 2011
Asian Love Match
There are quite a few Asian dating websites available, but if you want to check them all out, then there's a new kid on the block!
Asia Love Match is from the people who brought you China Love Match. I haven't used China Love Match as much as I have Chinese Love Links, but it's quite a good site. I met one China Love Match lady on my last visit to China, and I was impressed!
Asia Love Match looks and feels much the same as China Love Match. I loved the fact that I got a complimentary subscription to ALM when I joined CLM!
Asia Love Match is from the people who brought you China Love Match. I haven't used China Love Match as much as I have Chinese Love Links, but it's quite a good site. I met one China Love Match lady on my last visit to China, and I was impressed!
Asia Love Match looks and feels much the same as China Love Match. I loved the fact that I got a complimentary subscription to ALM when I joined CLM!
- Read more information about Asia Love Match, including how many Asian women you can find on it, and which countries they're from.
Tuesday, 8 November 2011
Asian Brides of Different Sizes
Here's a quick heads up if you're interested in finding an Asian wife with particular physical attributes...
Whatever type of lady you like, you'll find her in Asia!
Enjoy!
Whatever type of lady you like, you'll find her in Asia!
Enjoy!
Friday, 22 July 2011
How to Maintain a Long Distance Relationship
If you're interested in finding an Asian wife, then you'll have to figure out how to handle long distance relationships. While being knowledgeable about online dating is important for choosing an Asian girlfriend, keeping her is not always easy. Here are 10 tips to help you with the pain of being so far away from your loved one.
Thursday, 7 July 2011
ForeignLadies International Dating Site
One of the international dating sites men searching for foreign brides usually come across is ForeignLadies. I must admit that I too first looked at this site when I first thought of the idea of looking for love overseas.
Good things about ForeignLadies include the fact that you can see the ladies' profiles without having to login and register first. So it's a good site if you're window shopping for a foreign bride. Another good thing is that it has a range of ladies from a wide range of countries. So it's a good place if you're not sure if you want a Russian, Asian or even a Latin American bride.
Sadly that's probably the best of the site over with. ForeignLadies is quite an expensive site to use. It's of the letter writing variety, where you have to pay to send a letter to a lady. After I found ForeignLadies I found Chnlove, and I spent over $400 on that site in just a few months. Wow, was I a mug. I could have signed up to Chinese Love Links for an annual membership plan of around $165! And there are enough English speaking ladies on this site that there's no need for a translation letter writing service anyway.
Another kicker for me is that if you search hard enough you can find the same ladies on more than one dating site. I've personally seen ladies from Chnlove on Cherry Blossoms. Do some hunting around and no doubt you'll find the ForeignLadies ladies on other sites.
Having said that, plenty of men do find love on ForeignLadies and go on to marry the foreign lady of their dreams. But just watch the costs of sites like this because I know of men who have spent 1000's of dollars writing to ladies on international dating sites, and that's a big price to pay for finding love overseas.
Good things about ForeignLadies include the fact that you can see the ladies' profiles without having to login and register first. So it's a good site if you're window shopping for a foreign bride. Another good thing is that it has a range of ladies from a wide range of countries. So it's a good place if you're not sure if you want a Russian, Asian or even a Latin American bride.
Sadly that's probably the best of the site over with. ForeignLadies is quite an expensive site to use. It's of the letter writing variety, where you have to pay to send a letter to a lady. After I found ForeignLadies I found Chnlove, and I spent over $400 on that site in just a few months. Wow, was I a mug. I could have signed up to Chinese Love Links for an annual membership plan of around $165! And there are enough English speaking ladies on this site that there's no need for a translation letter writing service anyway.
Another kicker for me is that if you search hard enough you can find the same ladies on more than one dating site. I've personally seen ladies from Chnlove on Cherry Blossoms. Do some hunting around and no doubt you'll find the ForeignLadies ladies on other sites.
Having said that, plenty of men do find love on ForeignLadies and go on to marry the foreign lady of their dreams. But just watch the costs of sites like this because I know of men who have spent 1000's of dollars writing to ladies on international dating sites, and that's a big price to pay for finding love overseas.
Tuesday, 5 July 2011
What is the QPid Network?
The QPid Network is a network of Asian dating websites popular with men seeking mail order brides from Asia.
The QPid Network has two main sites:
Both Chnlove and Thai Matches are letter writing sites. These sites are free to join, but you have to pay to contact the ladies on the site. The cost of sending or receiving a letter includes a fee to get the letter translated into the lady's native language (i.e. Thai or Mandarin Chinese).
Good things about both sites include the fact that it's one way of getting around the language barrier. The sites are especially popular with men seeking more mature Asian wives, since these ladies are less likely to speak English. Chnlove in particular is great for Chinese mature women.
On the downside, letter writing sites are expensive! Writing letters to Asian ladies can work out much more expensive than using a flat rate Asian dating site such as Asian Euro, Asian Kisses or Chinese Love Links.
The QPid Network has two main sites:
- Chnlove
- Thai Matches
Both Chnlove and Thai Matches are letter writing sites. These sites are free to join, but you have to pay to contact the ladies on the site. The cost of sending or receiving a letter includes a fee to get the letter translated into the lady's native language (i.e. Thai or Mandarin Chinese).
Good things about both sites include the fact that it's one way of getting around the language barrier. The sites are especially popular with men seeking more mature Asian wives, since these ladies are less likely to speak English. Chnlove in particular is great for Chinese mature women.
On the downside, letter writing sites are expensive! Writing letters to Asian ladies can work out much more expensive than using a flat rate Asian dating site such as Asian Euro, Asian Kisses or Chinese Love Links.
What is the Cost of Mail Order Brides?
I've had a good attempt at calculating the cost of finding a mail order bride. A lot of guys want to know what they're getting into financially before they find a foreign bride from Russia or Asia (maybe Latin America too).
You know you can do all the math in the world, but here's the simple truth:
Of course this $10,000 figure only includes expenses incurred in finding a bride. Once she's living with you in your own country there could well be further expenses. Actually, it's ladies we're talking about here, so of course there will be further costs!
How much more a foreign lady will cost you depends on the lady. I've spoken to career ladies, and if I married one of these then they'd be pretty much financially independent. I've also spoken to girls who just dream of being a housewife while the man goes out and earns the money. Your new bride's ability to work will also depend to some extent on her English language ability, and whether she has some skills that transfer well to life in a Western country. Different men like different types of lady, but this is another consideration you need to make when choosing a suitable bride for you.
So mail order brides are expensive, be under no illusions about that. Make sure you really can afford to find that foreign lady, then have enough money to support her after marriage. Money issues are the cause of many relationship issues, so being realistic about it will improve your chances of a successful and long lasting marriage to a beautiful foreign bride.
You know you can do all the math in the world, but here's the simple truth:
- Mail order brides are expensive!
Of course this $10,000 figure only includes expenses incurred in finding a bride. Once she's living with you in your own country there could well be further expenses. Actually, it's ladies we're talking about here, so of course there will be further costs!
How much more a foreign lady will cost you depends on the lady. I've spoken to career ladies, and if I married one of these then they'd be pretty much financially independent. I've also spoken to girls who just dream of being a housewife while the man goes out and earns the money. Your new bride's ability to work will also depend to some extent on her English language ability, and whether she has some skills that transfer well to life in a Western country. Different men like different types of lady, but this is another consideration you need to make when choosing a suitable bride for you.
So mail order brides are expensive, be under no illusions about that. Make sure you really can afford to find that foreign lady, then have enough money to support her after marriage. Money issues are the cause of many relationship issues, so being realistic about it will improve your chances of a successful and long lasting marriage to a beautiful foreign bride.
Friday, 3 June 2011
Cherry Blossom Dating Online
If you're looking for an Asian mail order bride then one of the oldest mail order bride businesses is Cherry Blossoms. While the company started off by mailing out printed mail order bride catalogs, the business now has an online dating site which makes choosing Asian women you're interested in much more straightforward.
The Cherry Blossom dating online site has a wide range of ladies from a number of countries. Filipinas from the Philippines are the most numerous. This is closely followed by Thai women. There are also large numbers of Chinese ladies to choose from. Smaller numbers of women from other Asian countries can also be found, so this might be a good place to look for a Malaysia, Vietnamese or Indonesian bride.
Sadly the Cherry Blossom dating site has a few scam ladies and undesirables on the site, but if you follow the policy of never sending money to Asian ladies then you'll avoid most of the bad apples. Incidentally Thai and Filipinas are generally the worst in terms of scamming. It's usually better to concentrate on the older ladies (say over the age of 30) and look for women with full time professional jobs that keep them out of trouble.
One advantage Cherry Blossom dating offers is that it's around the cheapest Asian dating site available. The site operates on a flat rate fee structure, so it's much cheaper to use than pay per contact sites like Chnlove or Asian Beauties. Obviously it costs more than the 100% dating site Date InAsia, but the Blossom site offers a much better search facility as well as chat rooms and other facilities that are missing from Date InAsia.
If you're interested in seeking an Asian mail order bride then it's possible to sign up to Cherry Blossom totally free and have a look at the ladies on offer. Sadly the free membership option is time limited, but with such an affordable monthly subscription fee this shouldn't be too much of an issue.
The Cherry Blossom dating online site has a wide range of ladies from a number of countries. Filipinas from the Philippines are the most numerous. This is closely followed by Thai women. There are also large numbers of Chinese ladies to choose from. Smaller numbers of women from other Asian countries can also be found, so this might be a good place to look for a Malaysia, Vietnamese or Indonesian bride.
Sadly the Cherry Blossom dating site has a few scam ladies and undesirables on the site, but if you follow the policy of never sending money to Asian ladies then you'll avoid most of the bad apples. Incidentally Thai and Filipinas are generally the worst in terms of scamming. It's usually better to concentrate on the older ladies (say over the age of 30) and look for women with full time professional jobs that keep them out of trouble.
One advantage Cherry Blossom dating offers is that it's around the cheapest Asian dating site available. The site operates on a flat rate fee structure, so it's much cheaper to use than pay per contact sites like Chnlove or Asian Beauties. Obviously it costs more than the 100% dating site Date InAsia, but the Blossom site offers a much better search facility as well as chat rooms and other facilities that are missing from Date InAsia.
If you're interested in seeking an Asian mail order bride then it's possible to sign up to Cherry Blossom totally free and have a look at the ladies on offer. Sadly the free membership option is time limited, but with such an affordable monthly subscription fee this shouldn't be too much of an issue.
Tuesday, 10 May 2011
Older Men Dating Younger Women
Asian mail order bride type dating sites are especially popular with older men, especially those looking into second time around dating. So what's the story with all the younger ladies on these dating sites? Can older men really date much younger women? Here's a quick guide to older men dating younger women.
First of all the laws of supply and demand govern dating, just like they do many other things in life. The simple math is that there are more women on many Asian dating sites compared to men. So women often have to cast the net wider. Usually this means accepting a husband who is a few years older than themselves.
Older men are generally more interested in Asian dating than younger men. Finding an Asian bride costs a lot of money, which younger men don't always have. It also take a lot of time and effort to find a wife from a foreign country, so few younger men bother. Finally, younger men generally find it easier to find girlfriends in their own country since far fewer girls of their own age are married or already in relationships.
There's also a little of the grass is greener syndrome. Many men hear stories about Russian and Asian brides and think that these ladies would come without the faults that Western women have. While there are some great Russian and Asian women seeking Western husbands, just don't wear your rose tinted spectacles when you're looking into foreign and international dating. I can assure you that there are plenty of Chinese and other foreign ladies who are just as narcissistic, or shopaholics or have other personality disorders that you'd want to avoid when choosing a bride. In fact due to cultural and language issues (not to mention distances involved with long term relationships) it can be even harder to spot a bad potential partner than should you stick to dating women in your own country.
Talking to Asian ladies I know, I've heard plenty of tales of women just marrying Western men for money. Invariably these girls (and they are usually girls in their early to mid-20's) will marry pretty much the first man who comes along. If he's American as well as rich then so much the better. Sometimes these relationships do work. But if the man's money runs out then so will his lady. It's worth remembering that Asian ladies are often very beautiful and age gracefully, so they don't usually have too many problems finding another partner once they're in a Western country. So while it's perfectly acceptable for an older man to date a younger woman, just don't end up being her green card mule.
If this doesn't discourage you from seeking a younger bride then your possibilities are probably to head to Russia, Thailand or the Philippines. Assuming you can get past the legions of scammers, then the Philippines is probably the best place to look for a much younger bride. Sign up to a site like Filipino Cupid and you'll be swamped with attention from 18 and 19 year old girls, whatever your own age. Have fun with these girls, but at the back of your mind just remember that it's really just all about the money.
First of all the laws of supply and demand govern dating, just like they do many other things in life. The simple math is that there are more women on many Asian dating sites compared to men. So women often have to cast the net wider. Usually this means accepting a husband who is a few years older than themselves.
Older men are generally more interested in Asian dating than younger men. Finding an Asian bride costs a lot of money, which younger men don't always have. It also take a lot of time and effort to find a wife from a foreign country, so few younger men bother. Finally, younger men generally find it easier to find girlfriends in their own country since far fewer girls of their own age are married or already in relationships.
There's also a little of the grass is greener syndrome. Many men hear stories about Russian and Asian brides and think that these ladies would come without the faults that Western women have. While there are some great Russian and Asian women seeking Western husbands, just don't wear your rose tinted spectacles when you're looking into foreign and international dating. I can assure you that there are plenty of Chinese and other foreign ladies who are just as narcissistic, or shopaholics or have other personality disorders that you'd want to avoid when choosing a bride. In fact due to cultural and language issues (not to mention distances involved with long term relationships) it can be even harder to spot a bad potential partner than should you stick to dating women in your own country.
Talking to Asian ladies I know, I've heard plenty of tales of women just marrying Western men for money. Invariably these girls (and they are usually girls in their early to mid-20's) will marry pretty much the first man who comes along. If he's American as well as rich then so much the better. Sometimes these relationships do work. But if the man's money runs out then so will his lady. It's worth remembering that Asian ladies are often very beautiful and age gracefully, so they don't usually have too many problems finding another partner once they're in a Western country. So while it's perfectly acceptable for an older man to date a younger woman, just don't end up being her green card mule.
If this doesn't discourage you from seeking a younger bride then your possibilities are probably to head to Russia, Thailand or the Philippines. Assuming you can get past the legions of scammers, then the Philippines is probably the best place to look for a much younger bride. Sign up to a site like Filipino Cupid and you'll be swamped with attention from 18 and 19 year old girls, whatever your own age. Have fun with these girls, but at the back of your mind just remember that it's really just all about the money.
Thursday, 28 April 2011
Cherry Blossoms Mail Order Bride Website
Cherry Blossoms is an online dating service specialising in helping Western men find foreign brides. The company started off as a traditional mail order brides business, with printed catalogs sent through the post. Cherry Blossoms is now know for its popular online dating website.
On the Cherry Blossoms website you can sign up and chat and email foreign ladies. The ladies on Cherry Blossoms are from a wide range of countries. The majority of them are from China, Thailand and the Philippines. In fact, Filipinas are particularly numerous on the site.
So how does the Cherry Blossoms mail order bride website stack up against the competition?
The membership fee is perhaps the most competitively priced of all the Asian dating websites. If you don't like the idea of paying for a dating site then DateInAsia is a free alternative to Cherry Blossoms. The ladies are from the same range of countries, but the search facilities are very basic.
The Cherry Blossoms website has a fairly basic design. I found it didn't always work properly in particular web browsers. I also felt that the site lacked the slickness of Cupid Media sites like Chinese Love Link and Filipino Cupid.
Scammers are a problem on the Cherry Blossoms site. Scam ladies are a particular problem on sites such as this because the ladies can sign up for free. So scammers can effectively sign up faster than they can be identified and removed by the site's moderators. Don't send money to any lady you meet on Cherry Blossoms and you'll avoid most of the usual problems.
One good point of Cherry Blossoms is that it has ladies from a wide range of countries. So if you're not sure which country you want to find a bride from then this could be a good site for you to use. But if you're not sure which country you want to look for an Asian bride in, then you could be overwhelmed with the sheer number of ladies on the Cherry Blossoms mail order bride website. Happy searching!
On the Cherry Blossoms website you can sign up and chat and email foreign ladies. The ladies on Cherry Blossoms are from a wide range of countries. The majority of them are from China, Thailand and the Philippines. In fact, Filipinas are particularly numerous on the site.
So how does the Cherry Blossoms mail order bride website stack up against the competition?
The membership fee is perhaps the most competitively priced of all the Asian dating websites. If you don't like the idea of paying for a dating site then DateInAsia is a free alternative to Cherry Blossoms. The ladies are from the same range of countries, but the search facilities are very basic.
The Cherry Blossoms website has a fairly basic design. I found it didn't always work properly in particular web browsers. I also felt that the site lacked the slickness of Cupid Media sites like Chinese Love Link and Filipino Cupid.
Scammers are a problem on the Cherry Blossoms site. Scam ladies are a particular problem on sites such as this because the ladies can sign up for free. So scammers can effectively sign up faster than they can be identified and removed by the site's moderators. Don't send money to any lady you meet on Cherry Blossoms and you'll avoid most of the usual problems.
One good point of Cherry Blossoms is that it has ladies from a wide range of countries. So if you're not sure which country you want to find a bride from then this could be a good site for you to use. But if you're not sure which country you want to look for an Asian bride in, then you could be overwhelmed with the sheer number of ladies on the Cherry Blossoms mail order bride website. Happy searching!
Best Mail Order Brides
Increasing numbers of men are seeking foreign brides. But which are the best mail order brides you can find?
Personally I don't like to see the term mail order brides. It's a little demeaning and makes it appear that you're buying a wife. For me the best mail order brides are those who don't need to marry for money or a better lifestyle. Personally I think that China is a great place to look for a foreign bride. Modern Chinese cities such as Guangzhou, Shenzhen, Shanghai and Beijing are full of single professional ladies. They often speak English which makes communication with them so much easier. They often have good office based careers, which mean that if you want your new bride to move to your own country then they shouldn't find it too hard to find a job. Finally, they often have a high standard of education. Increasing numbers of Chinese women have degrees from overseas Universities, and I've chatted to plenty of ladies with better careers (and salary!) than my own. I've often been turned down by these ladies. But you know what - that's an excellent sign. It means they're not desparate to marry the first man who comes along, and it gives me a clue that I'm looking at the right type of lady for a long lasting marriage.
My runners up for best mail order brides would be Filipinas. They tend to be extremely friendly and can make loving, devoted wives. If you want a wife who adores you then head to the Philippines. On the downside, I know I'm not particularly religious, so I don't know if that would be a problem should I choose to find a Filipina bride. And Filipina scammers are very numerous on dating sites so it's a bit like sticking your head in a barrel full of snakes. It's sad that the game players make it much harder for honest ladies to find marriage partners on Filipina Heart, DateInAsia and the other Filipino dating sites. One guy I spoke to recently told me he'd chatted to 40 Filipinas on Filipina Heart, and he'd been shocked that all but two of them appeared to be angling for money.
At the end of the day, the best mail order bride is the lady for you. So sign up to some Russian, Latin or Asian dating websites and start looking for your perfect bride.
Personally I don't like to see the term mail order brides. It's a little demeaning and makes it appear that you're buying a wife. For me the best mail order brides are those who don't need to marry for money or a better lifestyle. Personally I think that China is a great place to look for a foreign bride. Modern Chinese cities such as Guangzhou, Shenzhen, Shanghai and Beijing are full of single professional ladies. They often speak English which makes communication with them so much easier. They often have good office based careers, which mean that if you want your new bride to move to your own country then they shouldn't find it too hard to find a job. Finally, they often have a high standard of education. Increasing numbers of Chinese women have degrees from overseas Universities, and I've chatted to plenty of ladies with better careers (and salary!) than my own. I've often been turned down by these ladies. But you know what - that's an excellent sign. It means they're not desparate to marry the first man who comes along, and it gives me a clue that I'm looking at the right type of lady for a long lasting marriage.
My runners up for best mail order brides would be Filipinas. They tend to be extremely friendly and can make loving, devoted wives. If you want a wife who adores you then head to the Philippines. On the downside, I know I'm not particularly religious, so I don't know if that would be a problem should I choose to find a Filipina bride. And Filipina scammers are very numerous on dating sites so it's a bit like sticking your head in a barrel full of snakes. It's sad that the game players make it much harder for honest ladies to find marriage partners on Filipina Heart, DateInAsia and the other Filipino dating sites. One guy I spoke to recently told me he'd chatted to 40 Filipinas on Filipina Heart, and he'd been shocked that all but two of them appeared to be angling for money.
At the end of the day, the best mail order bride is the lady for you. So sign up to some Russian, Latin or Asian dating websites and start looking for your perfect bride.
Wednesday, 27 April 2011
Asian Dating Agencies
Online dating isn't the only way to find an Asian wife. Another alternative is to look for Asian dating agencies. These operate more like introduction agencies. They normally charge a fixed fee for their service. The fees are generally higher than they are for dating sites. But dating agencies can often supply additional services, like a translator or personal introductions in their offices.
Asian Dating Agencies in Thailand
Asian dating agencies are most well known in Thailand. A number of agencies provide introduction agency like services in Thailand. These are a viable alternative to online Thai dating. These agencies tend to have a smaller selection of ladies on their books compared to dating sites like Thai Love Lines or Thai Love Links. But the ladies will have been background checked and you can be safe in the knowledge that the ladies actually exist - this isn't something you can always say of dating sites.
Asian Dating Agencies in Thailand
Asian dating agencies are most well known in Thailand. A number of agencies provide introduction agency like services in Thailand. These are a viable alternative to online Thai dating. These agencies tend to have a smaller selection of ladies on their books compared to dating sites like Thai Love Lines or Thai Love Links. But the ladies will have been background checked and you can be safe in the knowledge that the ladies actually exist - this isn't something you can always say of dating sites.
Tuesday, 26 April 2011
Christian Mail Order Brides
Many men, particularly American men, like the idea of finding a mail order bride who shares their religious beliefs. So where is it the best place to find Christian mail order brides?
The obvious place to look is the Philippines. The majority of Filipinas are Christian. They tend to be God fearing, and take their religion very seriously. Of course, the Filipino version of Christianity might differ a little from your own particular type of Christianity, so expect some differences of opinion.
If you want to find a Filipino mail order bride then all Asian dating sites have thousands of Filipnas on them. Sorting out the good and decent ladies from the scammers is a big job though. If you're up to the challenge, then head to DateInAsia, Filipino Cupid or Filipino Kisses.
It's less well known that some other Asian ladies are Christian. I've encountered plenty of Christian ladies in Japan and China. These ladies can often find it hard to find a Christian partner in their own countries, so they will look for a husband overseas. These ladies can often make great Asian brides as they have a legitimate reason for finding it hard to find husbands in their own country. So sign up to Japan Cupid or Chinese Love Links and specify that you only want to meet Christian ladies.
The obvious place to look is the Philippines. The majority of Filipinas are Christian. They tend to be God fearing, and take their religion very seriously. Of course, the Filipino version of Christianity might differ a little from your own particular type of Christianity, so expect some differences of opinion.
If you want to find a Filipino mail order bride then all Asian dating sites have thousands of Filipnas on them. Sorting out the good and decent ladies from the scammers is a big job though. If you're up to the challenge, then head to DateInAsia, Filipino Cupid or Filipino Kisses.
It's less well known that some other Asian ladies are Christian. I've encountered plenty of Christian ladies in Japan and China. These ladies can often find it hard to find a Christian partner in their own countries, so they will look for a husband overseas. These ladies can often make great Asian brides as they have a legitimate reason for finding it hard to find husbands in their own country. So sign up to Japan Cupid or Chinese Love Links and specify that you only want to meet Christian ladies.
Wednesday, 9 March 2011
More DateInAsia Timewasting
I'm looking for a Chinese wife so recently I signed up to the DateInAsia free Asian dating site. I've had a couple more contacts. Again neither of the ladies were particularly suitable. One didn't have a photo, the other was only 22 and just wanted to chat. I want to find a wife. I have no interest in chatting.
Really I should spend an evening browsing the site in search of Chinese ladies to chat to. But why should I? The site is basically rubbish. There are too many timewaster ladies. There are too many dubious ladies. And the site has very basic facilities for storing your favorites while you think about them.
No, I'm sticking with Chinese Cupid. It cost around $165 to join for a whole year. There are great facilities for saving details of your favorite Chinese ladies. You can even put little notes next to their photos so you can remind yourself of why you liked them, and whether you think they're good wife material.
If you're serious about finding a good quality Asian wife then you'll need these types of logistics. To give you an example I've currently got 39 ladies on my favorites list. That's actually cut down from 58 I had at one stage. And that's actually quite a low number because I'm planning to visit a specific city and I have absolutely no interest in ladies who are emailing me from other parts of China (focus is crucial in this game).
Really I should spend an evening browsing the site in search of Chinese ladies to chat to. But why should I? The site is basically rubbish. There are too many timewaster ladies. There are too many dubious ladies. And the site has very basic facilities for storing your favorites while you think about them.
No, I'm sticking with Chinese Cupid. It cost around $165 to join for a whole year. There are great facilities for saving details of your favorite Chinese ladies. You can even put little notes next to their photos so you can remind yourself of why you liked them, and whether you think they're good wife material.
If you're serious about finding a good quality Asian wife then you'll need these types of logistics. To give you an example I've currently got 39 ladies on my favorites list. That's actually cut down from 58 I had at one stage. And that's actually quite a low number because I'm planning to visit a specific city and I have absolutely no interest in ladies who are emailing me from other parts of China (focus is crucial in this game).
Thursday, 24 February 2011
DateInAsia - First Impressions
So I signed up to DateInAsia yesterday. DateInAsia is a 100% free Asian dating site. There are many free Asian dating sites, but DateInAsia is by far the most popular. The site claims to have over one million members. How many are active members is not known however.
First impressions were quite favourable. As a security check when you sign up your email address is verified. You also have to supply a mobile phone number. The site then sends out a SMS message to your mobile phone so that the site can verify that you're not setting up a duplicate profile or anything. Does this prevent scammers from using the site? It's probably not hugely effective given that a SIM card is pretty cheap. A professional scammer won't be deterred either - they'll simply add the mobile phone to their expenses of running their business. One cheeky tactic of many scammers is to ask their male victims for money so they can buy a mobile phone. So effectively scam victim #1 is paying the scammer to set up their fake profile so that they can scam victim #2.
So far so good. But unfortunately my impressions of DateInAsia went downhill after that. The site is very basic. I mean VERY basic. There are minimal search facilities. And there is nothing like the My Matches feature of sites like Chinese Love Links. The search facility is stupendously basic. You can really only search on location and age. Want to find a Chinese lady who speaks Japanese and wears glasses? Don't bother with DateInAsia, it's like looking for a needle in a haystack. But finding her on Chinese Love Links would be a piece of cake.
But for me the killer problem with DateInAsia has been the lack of interest in my profile. I've booked my trip to Asia. I'm not one of the majority of male members of the site who has no intention of ever actually visiting the ladies. I'm compiling my list of ladies to visit. Yet the only thing on the site is tumbleweed. By comparison I get 3-4 messages a day on Chinese Love Links. And on Filipina Cupid I had to hide my profile as I was swamped with admirers, and that was just on the free membership plan!
So DateInAsia is pretty much a waste of time unless you have time on your hands. A lot of time!
First impressions were quite favourable. As a security check when you sign up your email address is verified. You also have to supply a mobile phone number. The site then sends out a SMS message to your mobile phone so that the site can verify that you're not setting up a duplicate profile or anything. Does this prevent scammers from using the site? It's probably not hugely effective given that a SIM card is pretty cheap. A professional scammer won't be deterred either - they'll simply add the mobile phone to their expenses of running their business. One cheeky tactic of many scammers is to ask their male victims for money so they can buy a mobile phone. So effectively scam victim #1 is paying the scammer to set up their fake profile so that they can scam victim #2.
So far so good. But unfortunately my impressions of DateInAsia went downhill after that. The site is very basic. I mean VERY basic. There are minimal search facilities. And there is nothing like the My Matches feature of sites like Chinese Love Links. The search facility is stupendously basic. You can really only search on location and age. Want to find a Chinese lady who speaks Japanese and wears glasses? Don't bother with DateInAsia, it's like looking for a needle in a haystack. But finding her on Chinese Love Links would be a piece of cake.
But for me the killer problem with DateInAsia has been the lack of interest in my profile. I've booked my trip to Asia. I'm not one of the majority of male members of the site who has no intention of ever actually visiting the ladies. I'm compiling my list of ladies to visit. Yet the only thing on the site is tumbleweed. By comparison I get 3-4 messages a day on Chinese Love Links. And on Filipina Cupid I had to hide my profile as I was swamped with admirers, and that was just on the free membership plan!
So DateInAsia is pretty much a waste of time unless you have time on your hands. A lot of time!
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