Wednesday 16 February 2011

Are Chinese Women Better than Thai Women?

Think of mail order brides and most people will think of Russia or Thailand. Thai brides are still pretty much the most popular Asian brides for foreign men. But on Asian dating sites such as Cherry Blossoms there are probably as many Chinese ladies as there are Thai women.

So in general, and this is what I've learned from using the various Asian dating sites...
  • Thai ladies are more likely to be scammers - most of them learn scamming techniques from working in Thailand's vast entertainment industry.
  • Chinese ladies on dating sites tend to be highly educated. It's not uncommon to see ladies with degrees, masters degrees and even an MBA or two. Mail order brides they are not! If you want an alpha female Asian wife, Chinese ladies are a better choice. Having said this, it's increasingly common to see young educated women on ThaiLoveLink and other sites.
  • Chinese ladies tend to be quite confident and aren't a good choice if you want a shy and submissive type of Asian wife.
  • China can be more difficult to visit than Thailand. You usually need a visa. Transport is complicated and frequently crowded. And the language and culture can be baffling.
  • Chinese people have very different beliefs about certain aspects of life, with childbirth being one particular can of worms. If you want lots of babies with your Asian wife then you might find it easier to marry a Thai or Filipina girl.
  • Chinese ladies can be exceptionally beautiful. I'm not going to get dragged into a "which ladies are the most beautiful" type of argument, but having been one of the few Western men to visit central China I have one word to say - WOW!
Ultimately the best thing to do is to sign up to an Asian dating site and see for yourself which ladies you think are best.

1 comment:

  1. You do a great disservice to Thai women. The "vast entertainment industry" you write about is really rather small.
    The country with the highest number of prostitutes per capita is China, and by some distance. Remarkable when you realise it has virtually no entertainment industry.
    The Philippines is second. Perhaps Thailand lies third, but so could any one of a host of poverty stricken countries anywhere in the world.
    ChnLove and its two sister companies; Idateasia and CharmingDate are the most crooked and dishonest sites on the web. Writing letters to each other? I have to wonder to whom. Probably the company janitor is roped in to reply.
    Cupid Media seems to be in some way affiliated to ChnLove. Whenever my paid membership ran out at Filipino Heart or ThaiLoveLinks, there was a sudden surge of e-mails from delectable and obviously fake ChnLove females which just as suddenly ceased upon my renewing my membership.
    DateinAsia might be basic, but it does all you require, and for free. Lets be honest, most Western men and women meet their prospective partners in dark and dingy nightclubs while intoxicated. How much more basic can you get?
    Too much searching leads to too much choice. You'll forever drop one girl for another that you feel is just that little bit prettier, or better in some other way. Always hoping for perfection, and probably ending up with no one.
    Find a pretty girl that loves you and speaks at least some English. It really is that easy.

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