Friday, 6 May 2011

Mail Order Japanese Brides

Many men like the idea of marrying Asian women. So what are your options if you're interested in seeking a mail order Japanese bride?

The first thing to note is that there isn't really any such thing as a Japanese mail order bride anymore. Japan is a very wealthy nation, and most of the women don't need to marry a man in order to have a good standard of living. There's also no particular shortage of good husband material in Japan - the average salaryman earns a decent wage these days.

However, if you're a Western man and you like the idea of finding a Japanese bride then the Internet can come to your assistance. Your first port of call is Japan Cupid. This is a great site for finding marriage minded Japanese ladies. However, I was a bit disappointed with this site. Maybe it was because:

  • I don't live in Japan, and most Japanese ladies don't want to live overseas.
  • I'm not American, and Japanese women tend to be much more interested in American men.
  • Japanese women don't seem to be as enthusiastic as marrying foreign men as Chinese ladies are.
  • I don't speak or write any Japanese.
  • Maybe I didn't put enough effort into contacting ladies - Japanese ladies tend to be quite shy so it's often better for the man to initiate contact with them.
If you don't like the idea of Japan Cupid then there are marriage agencies in Japan who will help you find a Japanese lady seeking a Western man for marriage. Try Meet Japan Lady or the Transpacific Marriage Agency.

Failing that, if you're interested in dating professional Asian ladies then Japan isn't your only choice. You could also try Korean Cupid for South Korean ladies. Or take a look at Chinese Cupid because there are tens of thousands of fantastic ladies on this site. Unless you're particularly attached to Japanese culture or the language, it's invariably better to seek a bride from China than it is from Japan.

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