I've been using Asian online dating sites for a while now. At first I was totally confused, and I had no idea what site I should be using in order to meet Chinese girls online. I ended up at Chnlove. It seemed cheap at first, but costs very quickly escalated. I think I ended spending over $400 on that site. That's a lot of money considering that the girl I ended up visiting in China knew some English, and I learned enough Chinese characters to be able to talk to her via MSN and Skype.
I wished I'd known about the other excellent dating sites out there before parting with so much hard earned cash on Chnlove.
So if you're new to the Asian dating scene, then preserve your cash and read my article about the best Asian dating sites.
Thursday, 20 January 2011
Friday, 14 January 2011
Comparing Asian Women
If (like me!) you're not sure which Asian ladies would make the best wife for you, then this article about comparing Asian women is a fascinating read. I'm surprised to say that I actually agree with the author on many of the points he makes.
So far I've dated a Chinese lady. Yes she was beautiful. In fact the women in her home town are the most beautiful I have ever seen. And yet... I do worry about Chinese ladies growing older. They can get very controlling. Most Chinese families are pretty ambitious, so don't expect to put your feet up if you have a Chinese woman breathing down your neck. They're not called Dragon Ladies for nothing you know.
Onto Japan. I've been on dates with a number of different Japanese ladies. All were exceptionally nice, with beautiful manners. But at the same time, they were quite timid. While a lot of guys like this, I just wonder how long a relationship with a Japanese woman would last. It could get pretty boring.
Like the author of the piece, I've heard so many good things about Filipinas. Yes they can be clingy, but if you're looking for a wife and not a short term girlfriend (of the sort you can find in Thailand) then Filipinas are worth considering. Another great thing about Filipinas is that they have very womanly figures.
Finally I'll agree with the author is that the best Asian ladies are in Asia. Go to Japan or China and you'll be stunned by the beauty of the local ladies. I'm arranging my trip to the Philippines!
So far I've dated a Chinese lady. Yes she was beautiful. In fact the women in her home town are the most beautiful I have ever seen. And yet... I do worry about Chinese ladies growing older. They can get very controlling. Most Chinese families are pretty ambitious, so don't expect to put your feet up if you have a Chinese woman breathing down your neck. They're not called Dragon Ladies for nothing you know.
Onto Japan. I've been on dates with a number of different Japanese ladies. All were exceptionally nice, with beautiful manners. But at the same time, they were quite timid. While a lot of guys like this, I just wonder how long a relationship with a Japanese woman would last. It could get pretty boring.
Like the author of the piece, I've heard so many good things about Filipinas. Yes they can be clingy, but if you're looking for a wife and not a short term girlfriend (of the sort you can find in Thailand) then Filipinas are worth considering. Another great thing about Filipinas is that they have very womanly figures.
Finally I'll agree with the author is that the best Asian ladies are in Asia. Go to Japan or China and you'll be stunned by the beauty of the local ladies. I'm arranging my trip to the Philippines!
Wednesday, 12 January 2011
Japan Cupid - My Experiences So Far...
So I finally signed up for a full membership of Japan Cupid. I signed up for a whole year, and I got a big discount. I was pleased about that.
The Cupid Media dating sites are quite good. They have great search facilities and it's easy to contact the members. On the downside the image loader is rubbish and doesn't always work in my web browser. There are also plenty of profiles on the site that haven't been updated for a long time.
What I've noticed about Japan Cupid is that I've had a lot more interest in my dating profile since I signed up for full membership. I will warn you though that finding a Japanese wife or girlfriend isn't easy. For one thing Japanese ladies are quite shy and reserved, so they won't be beating a path down to your door. You need to go and chase them. The other thing is of course that Japanese ladies don't need to marry for economic reasons or to get a visa in order to leave Japan. Sign up for Filipino Cupid and you'll be swamped with interest. Don't expect the same from Japan Cupid.
Sadly now that my profile is listed amongst the Platinum members, I'm also more visible to scammers. I'll remind you that dating site scammers are hard at work on just about every dating site there is. Thankfully they're quite easy to spot on Japan Cupid. Many dating site scammers are from West African, and it is highly unlikely that your average dating site scammer will be able to pull the wool over the eyes of somebody who is knowledgeable about Japanese culture.
My one tip is to stay well away from ladies who haven't posted a photo of themselves on the site. They might be shy, but they're probably more likely to be a scammer!
The Cupid Media dating sites are quite good. They have great search facilities and it's easy to contact the members. On the downside the image loader is rubbish and doesn't always work in my web browser. There are also plenty of profiles on the site that haven't been updated for a long time.
What I've noticed about Japan Cupid is that I've had a lot more interest in my dating profile since I signed up for full membership. I will warn you though that finding a Japanese wife or girlfriend isn't easy. For one thing Japanese ladies are quite shy and reserved, so they won't be beating a path down to your door. You need to go and chase them. The other thing is of course that Japanese ladies don't need to marry for economic reasons or to get a visa in order to leave Japan. Sign up for Filipino Cupid and you'll be swamped with interest. Don't expect the same from Japan Cupid.
Sadly now that my profile is listed amongst the Platinum members, I'm also more visible to scammers. I'll remind you that dating site scammers are hard at work on just about every dating site there is. Thankfully they're quite easy to spot on Japan Cupid. Many dating site scammers are from West African, and it is highly unlikely that your average dating site scammer will be able to pull the wool over the eyes of somebody who is knowledgeable about Japanese culture.
My one tip is to stay well away from ladies who haven't posted a photo of themselves on the site. They might be shy, but they're probably more likely to be a scammer!
Asian Romance Tours
Asian online dating is hazardous due to the number of scammers and timewasters on your average Asian dating website. There are tens of thousands of members on many of the more popular Asian dating websites. In fact DateInAsia claims to have over ONE MILLION members. That's a lot of Asian ladies!
So if you're too busy to sort through all the personals on dating sites, then why not consider a romance tour? On a romance tour you'll get to meet face to face with dozens of beautiful single Asian ladies. This is a great option if you're scared of dating site scammers. At least on a tour you'll get to meet the Asian ladies in person, so you'll know that they definitely exist!
Here's more information about Asian romance tours.
So if you're too busy to sort through all the personals on dating sites, then why not consider a romance tour? On a romance tour you'll get to meet face to face with dozens of beautiful single Asian ladies. This is a great option if you're scared of dating site scammers. At least on a tour you'll get to meet the Asian ladies in person, so you'll know that they definitely exist!
Here's more information about Asian romance tours.
Tuesday, 4 January 2011
New Russian Dating Sites Guide
Interested in finding a foreign bride from Russia or Eastern Europe? The Asian Dating Sites Guide now has a sister website - the Russian Dating Sites Guide. Over the coming months this site will be expanded to cover the basics of finding a bride from Russia or Eastern Europe. Information will include:
- Dating site, introduction agency or romance tour - which is best?
- Which dating sites are good, and which to avoid.
- How to avoid Russian dating site scams and scammers.
- Tips and tricks on finding the beautiful Russian lady of your dreams.
Monday, 13 December 2010
Thai Professional - Thailand Based Introduction Agency
Thai ladies are lovely, but finding a decent one on an Asian dating website is like looking for a needle in a haystack. You need to avoid scammers, as well as the many Thai ladies who supplement their income by getting men on dating sites to send them money and gifts.
If your financial means are limited, or you don't have the time to be messed around then it can be a good idea to use an introduction agency.
Here's an overview of the Thai Professional introduction agency. This Bangkok based marriage agency has a fixed fee service. For that they'll find you a suitable Thai bride, help with your marriage and visa arrangements, as well as provide you with support after marriage.
Alternatively you can go it alone with a dating site like Thai Kisses. Just be wary of all the scammers on sites like this.
If your financial means are limited, or you don't have the time to be messed around then it can be a good idea to use an introduction agency.
Here's an overview of the Thai Professional introduction agency. This Bangkok based marriage agency has a fixed fee service. For that they'll find you a suitable Thai bride, help with your marriage and visa arrangements, as well as provide you with support after marriage.
Alternatively you can go it alone with a dating site like Thai Kisses. Just be wary of all the scammers on sites like this.
Top tips for better Filipino online dating
One of the hardest aspects of online Filipino dating is finding a Filipino lady who is sincere. This is very hard to do, and you just have to trust your male intuition. Tips for finding a good lady include:
Looking for someone close to your own age.
Taking your time to get to know her.
Look for a lady with an office job or some other type of work, and avoid ladies who have anything to do with the sex industry.
Try and get to know her friends and family.
Finding a Filipino lady you can trust is not at all easy. But many men are very satisfied with their partners once they do find a lady suitable for marriage...
Looking for someone close to your own age.
Taking your time to get to know her.
Look for a lady with an office job or some other type of work, and avoid ladies who have anything to do with the sex industry.
Try and get to know her friends and family.
Finding a Filipino lady you can trust is not at all easy. But many men are very satisfied with their partners once they do find a lady suitable for marriage...
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